Freedom From Fundamentalism

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A blog about finding my way out of Christian fundamentalism.

  • Nehemiah’s Story – Day of the Homeschooled Child

    The CRHE or Coalition for Responsible Home Education has pushed for April 30th to be “Day of the Homeschooled Child.” They have asked for stories that wouldn’t be traditionally told by homeschool alumni. “Some homeschooled children grow up in families that exploit lax homeschool laws to isolate, neglect, and abuse them. Hidden away from any…

    April 30, 2024

    N.J. McConnachie

    Family, Homeschool, NJ’s Posts, Pensacola Christian College, Purity Culture
    Christian Fundamentalism, Coalition for Responsible Home Education, CRHE, Day of the Homeschooled Child, DayOfTheHomeschooledChild, Education, Faith, Family, Home School, Homeschool, Homeschooling, Parenting, Purity Culture, Religion, Responsible homeschooling
    Nehemiah’s Story – Day of the Homeschooled Child
  • Set Up for Failure (The Gospel Hall Part 3)

    The author’s post reflects their experience transitioning from an independent Baptist church to a conservative religious group, the gospel hall assemblies. They sought community and friendship and were initially drawn to the communal sharing within the group. However, they discovered restrictive gender roles and oppressive teachings, leading them to feel marginalized and unwelcome. The harmful…

    April 28, 2024

    N.J. McConnachie

    Church, Deconstruction, NJ’s Posts
    Belief, Believers Hymn Book, Bible, biblical patriarchy, Brethren, Children, Christianity, cult, Ethnos 360, Faith, Glory of the man, Gospel Hall, Head covering, Headship, Hillside Gospel Hall, John Nelson Darby, New Tribes Bible Institute, Open Brethren, Patriarchy, PCC, Plymouth Brethren, Religion, The Brethren, Women
    Set Up for Failure (The Gospel Hall Part 3)
  • Set Up for Failure (Part 2 Pensacola Christian College)

    The author discusses their experience at Pensacola Christian College, highlighting the college’s authoritarian and manipulative use of religious authority. They note the enforcement of strict rules, manipulation through guilt and fear, and instances of abuse and trauma inflicted on students. The lack of autonomy and the punitive structure hindered academic and personal growth.

    April 21, 2024

    N.J. McConnachie

    Independent Fundamental Baptist, NJ’s Posts, Pensacola Christian College
    Abuse, authoritarian parenting, authority, Bible, Christian, Faith, Homophobia, humility, Obedience, obedience to authority, obey, parental authority, PCC, Pensacola Christian College, Religion, religious abuse
    Set Up for Failure (Part 2 Pensacola Christian College)
  • Set Up for Failure / Authoritarian Parenting (Part 1)

    Fundamentalist families set children up for failure by teaching blind obedience to authority figures, equating parental authority with divine authority. This stifles critical thinking.

    April 17, 2024

    N.J. McConnachie

    Family, NJ’s Posts, Pensacola Christian College
    authoritarian parenting, authority, Belief, Ezzo, Faith, Gary Ezzo, Growing Kids God's Way, Obedience, obedience to authority, Parent child relationships, parental authority, Parenting, Parenting Styles, Quiet Time, Scripture, Word of Life
    Set Up for Failure / Authoritarian Parenting (Part 1)
  • “Just Angry at God”

    Not long ago I was sent a message by my mother. It strongly implied that the only reason I left my faith behind was anger at the divine. That if I had a more grace filled college experience I would have stayed within Christianity. She stated I should have attended a more grace filled college.…

    September 7, 2023

    N.J. McConnachie

    Family, NJ’s Posts, Pensacola Christian College
    Belief, Believe, Bible, Black and White Thinking, Boundaries, Cedarville, Cedarville University, Certainty, Child Parent Relationships, Faith, Family, Family dynamics, Pensacola Christian College, Relationships, Religion, Scripture, Word of God
    “Just Angry at God”
  • Rocking for Jesus

    It’s odd listening to music from my teen years. Bands like Flyleaf, Skillet, Pillar, and Thousand Foot Krutch were my “rebellious music” I listened to in high school. But I took a listen back now, and the topics and themes are really quite similar to the message I was getting in my church. I was…

    July 9, 2023

    N.J. McConnachie

    Uncategorized
    CCM, Deconstruction, exvangelical, Faith, Flyleaf, God, Lacey Sturm, Mental Health, music, sin
    Rocking for Jesus
  • The Next Generation of Fundamentalists

    Does anyone ever feel like the fundamentalists are “winning?” I’ve seen a lot of casual remarks online that outdated beliefs will fade with time. But within my own life I’ve seen a lot of evidence that fundamentalism will continue to be a heavy presence in the world into the next few generations.  My own family…

    June 5, 2023

    N.J. McConnachie

    Family, Homeschool
    Faith, Family, Fundamentalism, fundie, Kids, Marriage, quiverfull, Raising Children, the next generation, Worldview
    The Next Generation of Fundamentalists
  • Banning Books

    Banning Books

    April 24, 2023

    N.J. McConnachie

    Church, NJ’s Posts, Purity Culture
    Banning Books, Books, Church, Deckerville, Deckerville Public Library, Pastor, Purity Cuture, Religion, Sexuality
    Banning Books
  • The Safety of Christian Colleges

    It’s disappointing to see that every single Christian college I was pointed towards at a teen now has had some major sandal regarding SA or mistreatment of abuse. These were the colleges that I was suppose to be safe at. The “secular” colleges were suppose to be the scary ones. I was pushed away from…

    February 23, 2023

    N.J. McConnachie

    Deconstruction, NJ’s Posts, Pensacola Christian College
    Abuse, Belief, Bob Jones, Cedarville, Cedarville University, College, CW SA, Faith, Higher Education, John Macarthur, Liberty University, PCC, Pensacola Christian College, Religion, Sexual Abuse, spiritual abuse
    The Safety of Christian Colleges
  • The Problem of Certainty

    Exploring the extreme certainty fundamentalists often place on the authority of the bible. Big words such as infallible and inerrant are mentioned.

    February 7, 2023

    N.J. McConnachie

    Deconstruction, NJ’s Posts
    Answers In Genesis, Belief, Bible, Christianity, exvangelical, Faith, Fundamentalism, Inerrant, infallible, Religion, Scripture, Word of God
    The Problem of Certainty
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